I get it. They’re 75-110 years outdated. Issues aren’t working the identical anymore. You already know whose fault that’s? Nobody’s. So then why the fuck do outdated folks get to be straight up imply to folks with out penalties? They’re tremendous old- however that doesn’t imply they don’t know proper from mistaken. They do, they virtually completely know proper from mistaken. I KNOW they do, as a result of the very first thing somebody does “mistaken” or another way than they’re used to, they’re tremendous confrontational, bossy, and even downright demeaning to these they’re “correcting”. So I do know they know proper from wrong- they only suppose that they’re free from these guidelines as a result of, nicely, they’re outdated! They’ve been round lengthy sufficient, they don’t should be cordial to folks anymore, or adhere to societal requirements of being a traditional and good individual. I say that’s bullshit.
An outdated individual is yelling at a waitress and being disrespectful to different patrons who’re calling them out on it?? Throw them out. They acquired to the restaurant, they’ll get to the subsequent one and hopefully they’ll have corrected their habits as a result of they confronted penalties for it the final time they acted that method. Outdated individual begins going off on me about how I’m doing one thing they don’t like, they’re insulting me, or they’re simply saying impolite shit simply to say impolite shit? I ought to be capable of inform them to fuck off (in the identical method and trend I might do it in if a youthful individual was doing the identical shit to me) and never be advised “Disgrace on you! How might you say that to an aged man/woman? Do you have got any thought what it’s wish to be that outdated? How might you be so merciless?” Outdated individual calls somebody a racist title (assuming they don’t have dementia or one other degenerative illness)? Don’t serve them, don’t proceed speaking to them till they appropriate their habits.
Kids get HIT for a similar habits, which they do in an virtually method lesser diploma and with fully harmless intentions many of the time- they actually don’t even know why what they’re doing is mistaken. They get HIT for method smaller stuff. However you may’t be confrontational to your grandparents/dad and mom loudly occurring concerning the “silly waitress” who by the way in which, is in earshot, as a result of she hasn’t introduced the meals out that you simply ordered ten minutes in the past but and inform them to knock their shit off? Bullshit. Outdated individual, you do NOT get to do no matter and say no matter you need simply since you’re outdated.